Tuesday 30 April 2013

Closure

Just watched a video on youtube about remembering Huang Wenyong. Though I have heard of his passing two weeks ago, but I haven't watched a video about it yet. I don't really like to watch videos that remind me of people passing away because it strums a chord in my heart. I feel for his wife, daughter and son because it's so similar to mine. It has been 2 years+ but not a day goes by without me remembering about that time when I experienced their sadness and grief.

When my dad first died, I was bitter on how a lot of my friends still have their dads with them and I'm their age! So why was it so unfair that mine passed on so early yet there are many others who have their dads giving them away at their wedding. I'll never have such a experience. Not that I'm going to be married within the next 1 year. But still. It seemed very unfair to me at that time. Only then, did I realize that actually I'm not the only one having to go through such an ordeal. There are many others, just that I didn't realize at that time. And I should be thankful that at least I got to spend 23-odd years with my dad, 23 memorable years. And my childhood was perfect, because I have my mum and dad with me. And that's good enough.

Please pray for Huang Wenyong's family and other families who may be experiencing the loss of a parent.